- Not everything is about you.
- Don’t expect to be understood. Even by the “one”.
- Don’t be selfless in the name of being a good person. You can be good even if you think about yourself first.
- Don’t break your principles even for your loved ones.
- Don’t expect appreciation when you do good.
- Always have a small habit to take you out of your own brain when overthinking.
- Reward yourself and “punish” yourself. In other words, treat yourself as a second person.
- Don’t overvalue people or things.
- Stay away from those who are heavily under the influence of their feelings.
- Always question and second guess yourself (yes you’ve read it right).
- Embrace change and more importantly like the change.
- Make peace with your mood swings but don’t be controlled by them.
- If somebody listens to your problems, that does not necassarily mean they care.
- Don’t have trust in people who make the same mistake twice.
- Don’t be too prideful to ask for help from others, but chose them wisely.
- If you are a loner at heart, don’t expect yourself to be perfect in everything you do.
- Trust when proven, not when you start liking the person.
- Don’t overlove as you may end up hating the person. Don’t overhate as you may end up liking the person.
- Learn how to make one-sided closure.
- Don’t explain yourself.
- Don’t overshare your private matters and life.
- There are no missed opportunities. There are only misjudgements of the self.
- Anyone can be jealous of you.
- If something bothers you for the first time. Just say it. The next time won’t be any different.
- Being just is more valuable than being liked.
- Treat yourself as you treat your loved ones.
- You are not the victim of what happened to you. You are the victim of your perceptions.
- If somebody/something looks too good to be true, they are not being transperant.
- Always have a goal. Even for the smallest things.
- Don’t take people or things too seriously.
30 Life Lessons I Learned as a Millennial
