When we want to change badly enough what we are doing as a way of making a living, we start looking for ways out of our current state. However, if have limited resources and unorganized agenda; we get drowned in an ocean of thoughts and concerns. Though there seems more than a million ways to pursuit, all of them seem to be backbreaking. We know that we belong to somewhere else and feel like much like a lonely little petunia in an onion patch, we still cannot go there because we face so many different distractions. For this very reason, there is a way to overcome this struggle and it is to manifest your dream life in order to change everything you are not satisfied with.
Unfortunately, without a strategy to follow, motivation does not come knocking our door, let alone having the victory meal with us. Therefore, in this episode, I will try to show you my way of thinking and planning when I aim to get what seems nearly impossible to get. Of course, I get what I want at the end so it is not a fake story where I sell fake hope. No worries.
How to Get the Life We Want?
The method is called manifestation and I am sure you have been hearing about it so much recently. You can find billions of content promoting “manifest your dream life” titled contents to reach your dreams.
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There are even people proposing that you can manifest your dream life partner.
1. Dream a Little Dream
Well.. Call me a bragger but I have been manifesting my dreams since my childhood without knowing that it is called manifestation. As a natural dreamer, I dream about everything and everyone. Interestingly I don’t dream much at night but I do have some wild day dreams :D. Meaning that I always dream about the things in a way how I want them to be. For instance, if I want to have some musical skills I dream myself playing my favorite instruments before the people I love or even before a nice crowd of art lovers. It all depends on how serious I am thinking to have that skill and what I want to achieve with it.
Similarly, if I want to visit some city or country that seems not very possible in terms of financial or other limitations, I dream myself walking on the streets of that place, visiting the restaurants there or even having my close friends taken there to show them around. Just occupy yourself so much that, it becomes what you see when looking at random daily things. After some time, you go with selective perception anyway.
However, you can tell me that everyone does this dreaming thing when they want something. How is it different than manifesting it?
2. Take actions
Well, that is all about what you do next after dreaming. You take actions even if they are small. You start collecting information about what you want to achieve. If you have a dream about studying abroad, start following related content on social media, try to connect to people who are already studying where you want to go for and so on. In short, start taking steps in line with your dream even if they are slow and small. Progress is progress regardless of size and volume.
In addition to above, talk about your dream with your trusted and loved ones, so that it resides not only in your head but also in their minds and hearts. They can pray for you whole-heartedly or even some of them can connect you to something or someone who can be bridge to your dream. This way you are kind of creating a chain of support which creates an environment to haul positive energy and blessings.
Also, you can write your dreams down and set deadlines for achieving milestones to get it. This all depends on you and your way of making your dream a reality. I have achieved so many of my dreams in this way. When looking back at my life I just realized that I have achieved all my dreams by exactly dreaming about them and doing little things to make them reality. I could only realize it after they are past. But I assure you, it works. Since I have realized it now, I am doing it for my future as well. With the help of technology, communication and reachability to information way easier than before, so it should be easier to do the steps stated above.
3. Take Risks
Oow. I almost forgot to mention one crucial step when manifesting your dream life to become a reality. After you manifest and take all the necessary steps on the way of achieving your dream, you will definitely come across a chance, a turning point to make it reality. So just take that chance and not hesitate. Without taking risks to sail to new seas, you can never ever achieve your dreams. By standing where you are like a tree, you can never experience the satisfaction and self-appreciation and confidence of achieving your dreams.
In the end, I trust you and you should trust yourself in this road to manifesting your dream life. Because I believe that the only difference between people who only dream and people who live their dreams are the determination to do what it takes and courage to take risks when needed.